and sometimes all ends with a mutual misunderstanding

Misunderstanding...This word I think we all have used at least once and probably, some of us use it quite often. Misunderstanding, it means "a failure to understand something clearly." 

But why misunderstanding develops?

The answer is lack of courage! You might be wondering that what courage has to do with misunderstanding and it's not wrong either. So, I will definitely not let develop any misunderstanding in your mind so, let me just clarify everything. 

Courage is not immediate reason, but it is the prime source of misunderstanding that results in communication gap or inaction which ultimately cause misunderstanding. But how?

When we don't have the courage to ask questions, to express or to do what we really want and when we don't have courage to listen, especially when, it's our fault because of

1. It can hurt our ego

2.What would people think 

3. Others can make judgements and fun of me and a lot of inside chatter! 

And from here arises the problem because without proper communication we start making assumptions🤔🤔...it would have been like this, maybe, perhaps and all shits. 

So, what should we do?

Yes, that's the point and the answer is: Do not make assumptions.

Find courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstanding, sadness and drama and when it's your fault, have the courage to listen patiently. Don't bother about what would people think. They will think anyway and it's none of our business. Tell me just one thing you did, and everyone accepted it without any resistance. For instance, you topped in your class. Isn't it a good thing to do? Well, not necessarily as people still say he/ she crams, shows attitude, luckily got extra marks and what not. The more admirer one has the more he/she has critics. It goes proportionally. 

Always remember that you are responsible for what you do and what you say not for how people react. Yes, it may not be an easy thing to do but to avoid misunderstanding it takes courage, to stand up and speak ......& to sit down and listen. 

Simple life = Just avoid unnecessary drama.