"Life is not a problem to be solved, it's a mystery to be lived"

डिग्रियां तो तालीमों के खर्चों की रसीदें है।इल्म तो वो है, जो किरदार में झलकता है। Our personality is one of the most easily available certificates of our competence and character to others. Everything that we do like- the way we talk, the way we react in different situations, the way we put our opinion on different issues, the kind of arguments we give even the way we eat or walk everything matters. Because apart from degrees, the achievements and certificates that we get matter to a significant extent, but the problem is we can't show our certificates to everyone every time we meet. But we always carry our personality and character with us wherever we go and interestingly we show it to everyone no matter whether we want or not and whether others need it or not. So, I think it is worth trying to make our personality the true representative of our competence and abilities by consciously working on it.  At least I need to work on myself, think about yourself. ✌Picture of the day...#...

It's time to say goodbye to 2021 which came with a bad beginning for me.  Although I can't say that the entire chapter of 2021 was bad on the basis of a few introductory lines, because somehow it gave me a little insight to be more curious to know the story of my life better! #_6 Jan 2021   I had an accident that day.  We usually never imagine that such things can happen with us as well, and even if we do...we can't imagine how it actually feels when we face it. That moment I felt I might die. I was shocked & blank. I just didn't understand what happened. That night I could not sleep because of the pain and also because of the questions pouring down in my mind like raindrops. I thought what would have happened if I died that day? All my future plans, my aspirations and everything else would have been of no use. Then what was the point of taking all the trouble for them?  I would just become a memory that would fade over time and eventually be forgotten.  I ...

Hi guys, it's been a long time since I wrote. So today, I am goanna share with you a story which I read somewhere. I really liked it and I  hope you would like it too. CHAPTER ONE I walk down the street. There’s a hole in the sidewalk. It is a very deep hole. I fall in … I am helpless. It isn’t my fault. It takes forever to find a way out. CHAPTER TWO I walk down the same street. There’s a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don’t see it. I fall in … again. I can’t believe I’m in the same place, but it isn’t my fault. It still takes a long time to get out. CHAPTER THREE I walk down the same street. There’s a deep hole in the sidewalk. I see it is there. I still fall in … it’s a habit, but my eyes are open. I know where I am. It is my fault. I get out immediately. CHAPTER FOUR I walk down the same street. There’s a deep hole in the sidewalk. I walk around it. CHAPTER FIVE I walk down another street. ..........and the story ends here.......... For those who are wondering about the...

Waiting is something no one likes, and we just want things to get done in a miraculous manner instantly. But deep inside we all are aware of the fact that learning is not a magic it is a continuous process that requires ample amount of time. Isn't it so? Let's understand it with an example. Summer is just knocking the door and the Mango season is about to come. But the budding Mango takes time to become a full-grown Mango. But at times people can't wait until the fruit is ripe and just pluck it before even when it is so small. Though they know that the ripe fruit is tastier than the raw one. The reason being lack of patience.  So, in the eagerness to get the instant results and over exposure to options available to us we keep on changing our priorities, jumping here and there and on this and that. And the worst thing about this is, we lose the spark and the purpose in our previous work, and this makes us so restless & unstable that we end up doing average in every fiel...

Misunderstanding ...This word I think we all have used at least once and probably, some of us use it quite often. Misunderstanding, it means "a failure to understand something clearly."  But why misunderstanding develops? The answer is lack of courage!  You might be wondering that what courage has to do with misunderstanding and it's not wrong either. So, I will definitely not let develop any misunderstanding in your mind so, let me just clarify everything.  Courage is not immediate reason, but it is the prime source of misunderstanding that results in communication gap or inaction which ultimately cause misunderstanding. But how? When we don't have the courage to ask questions, to express or to do what we really want and when we don't have courage to listen, especially when, it's our fault because of 1. It can hurt our ego 2.What would people think  3. Others can make judgements and fun of me and a lot of inside chatter!  And from here arises the problem b...

I think we all criticize our life or ourselves for some reason or the other and sometimes it seems obvious also, but the point is: Are you more grateful to your life or more critical? Think about it. It might seem a small thing, but small things make a huge difference. I don't know how many of you have experienced it but when life snatches away what you had, it hurts. It really hurts badly. And at that time, you just want it back the way it was. Now see all the things that we have in present. Just stop here and give it a thought, think of as many things as you can that you have. Aren't they a big reason to be grateful for? Let's understand it with an example: WATER... the very basic and fundamental requirement of our body. God forbid, it ever happens, but if we don't get water for 2 days, we will yearn even for few drops of water like anything! Isn't it a thing to be grateful for. I am not being idealistic to be always happy but in the book of our life there should...

We all have many relationships like mother, father, husband, wife, brothers, sisters, friends etc. And of course, we love them a lot. But why sometimes it becomes very difficult to mantain a relationship? And from here arises a question how a relationship should be?  Surely, I don't have a formula or some magic to manage relationships but Yaa, a little change in perception would suffice. So, let's see it from a different angle to click a better shot...isn't it? If we notice the relationship between a mother and a child, a mother loves her child the most and accept it completely the way god has given it to her, doesn't matter if it is not good looking, not talented or differently able. For her... her child is everything and that is what we call unconditional love. And I think one of the best relationships that exists on this earth is that of the parent and the child and there is no better way to learn how to love someone i.e., loving them unconditionally. Nowadays, lots...

#_Covid Times Since the lockdown has started, we all are away from school, coaching, college & office and maybe missing those days and whenever glance back to old photos it seems like a perfect shot and a beautiful memory. Isn't it, doesn't matter how tiring those days were. But did we really enjoy that moment with full attention and happiness with which we are looking back at them. Just give it a thought. Let's ask it another way, are we enjoying these moments with the same intensity with which we are going to miss them in near future during our busy schedule and while narrating these days to someone? If we are really enjoying then it's great and if not, let's change our mindset and see it with a different glass altogether. Who knows, when we will get such an opportunity again. As after unlocking, we will be busy in our hectic lifestyle studying, worrying, finding job and many more. Aren't these days better? Think back of old days when we used to miss food ...

#_first blog #_ covid #_confusion Let's first understand the problem...why we get confused?  The prime reason is the abundance of options  available to us. The more knowledge and information we receive the more confused we are but that's the beauty & duty of our mind. If we are dead sure about everything, it means our mind has stopped processing and has blocked. Confusion is a sign of healthy mind. So, the only thing we need to learn is how to organize this confusion for our benefit because options available to us are not the problem rather they are the opportunities from which we can  choose the one that fits us the best. The first thing before taking a decision is to be calm and relaxed. We must stop the inside chatter and try to listen the inner voice. Our intuition is trying to guide us but is usually ignored.  If a particular thought or idea comes to our mind again and again, we  need to observe- why we're feeling this way and...